Archive for July, 2008

31
Jul

Coffee and Life

   Posted by: abelle   in let's 'weigh' awhile

Let’s end July with a little reality pinch.  Enjoy this story . . . . .

A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to hot coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said, ‘If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is but normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.
What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups and were eyeing each other’s cups.’

‘Now if life is coffee, then the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life, but the quality of life doesn’t change. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee in it.’

So, don’t let the cups drive you . . . . . enjoy the coffee instead.

image from: lekhaharidas.wordpress.com

The most important question you’ll ever ask yourself . . . . .

How many cannibals could your body feed?

Check yours at OnePlusYou

This year, the annual bloodletting project of GMA Kapuso Foundation called Sagip Dugtong Buhay will be on Aug08, Friday. This project, which is supported by the Philippine National Red Cross, will be held at Ever Gotesco Commonwealth and will start at 10am. And I’m going to be there! ;)

Who are eligible to donate?
This is open to healthy individuals who meet the following requirements:
1. 18 to 65 years old
2. weigh at least 50kilos or 110lbs.
3. blood pressure not lower than 90/60 and not over than 180/100
4. haven’t had a tattoo done for the past 12months prior to donation
5. haven’t been pierced (body piercing) for the last 24months (but may be accepted if done by a professional and instruments used were sterile or disposable)
6. no sexually transmitted disease, of course (AIDS, HIV, Hepatitis, etc.)
7. for additional information on blood donation, please check out the following websites:
GMA Kapuso Foundation (specifically for this project)
The Philippine National Red Cross
Department of Health

Remember, a blood donor should not take any alcohol and medications within 24 hours prior to donation.

Other helpful websites:
RedCross.org
GiveLife2.org

(edit: Also, a donor should take enough rest/sleep (thanks for this important reminder, Atniz ;) ). For more info on what to do before, during and after donation, please click the links above or ask your local health departments as eligibility guidelines may vary depending on the state/city you live in. For anything you would like to add to inform those who would like to donate, you are all welcome to share it here. Thanks, people!)

26
Jul

Ready, Aim . . . . . Pee?

   Posted by: abelle   in visuals

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package. ‘What food might this contain?’ the mouse wondered.

He was devastated to see it was a mousetrap.

Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning. ‘There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!’

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, ‘Mr. Mouse, I can see that this is a grave concern to you, but is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.’

The mouse turned to the pig and told him, ‘There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!’

The pig sympathized but said, ‘I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers.’

The mouse turned to the cow and said, ‘There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!’

The cow said, ‘Wow, Mr. Mouse. I’m sorry for you, but it’s no skin off my nose.’

So the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s mousetrap . . . . . alone.

That very night, a sound was heard throughout the house - like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey. The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer’s wife!

The farmer rushed her to the hospital . . . . .

and she returned home with a fever.

Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup’s main ingredient.

But his wife’s sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig.

The farmer’s wife did not get well. She died.

So many people came for her funeral. The farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.

The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.

So the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn’t concern you, remember: When one of us is threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called ‘life’. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.

Think about everyone who has ever helped you out and let them know how important they are. Remember, each of us is a vital thread in another person’s tapestry. Our lives are woven together for a reason.

1. The Blog Gallery for the ad spot they provided for me. For those who do not know or haven’t come across Blog Gallery yet, it is a blog directory where you can submit your blogs for free. And for EntreCard people, they also accept EC credits as payment for an ad spot on their website. So go there now and have your blogs listed! And btw, you may also want to vote for Only in Silence ;)

2. Ivan of Mabuhay Hosting Philippines for helping me again. Many of you may have noticed that I have exceeded my bandwidth limit last week. And since this was the first time it happened and I am not sure of what to do, I contacted him and asked for advice. Ivan gave me a little extra bandwidth to get by until next week when it resets. This is why you’re seeing me again. So if you’re looking for a webhosting company, check out Mabuhay Hosting Philippines. Excellent customer service, fast response to queries, affordable – translation: no headache.

3. Carlota for the free layout for my blogger blog. She’s in the middle of making it more beautiful at the moment, but if you need something, go check her out at one of her blogs - MyWeb-Blog.com. Aside from the layouts, she’s also busy holding contests once in a while so don’t miss out, people!

4. Marie of Online Web Helper for my 125X125 button I use for my ads. She also made me a matching banner & header as part of the graphics package I won, which hopefully you will see soon. Visit her and see the services she offers.

20
Jul

The Long Journey

   Posted by: abelle   in visuals

These are the two things I say to myself when I get sad. They are so beautiful and inspiring. It has been my ‘hobby’ to write them in all the books I own, including dictionaries and my organizer/planner. I say them to myself whenever I remember the loss of the baby we’ve been waiting and all the physical and emotional pain I felt with it, and whenever something that I have planned turned to something I don’t expect. I hope you like these too . . . . .

‘For I know the plans I have for you’, declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’ – Jeremiah29:11

‘God will never leave you. He will replace everything you lost. If He asks you to put something down, it’s because He wants you to pick up something better.’

16
Jul

Seven Facts About Me - a tag

   Posted by: abelle   in tags

This is a tag I received from Xenalto. I hope these 7 facts about me will help all of you to get to know me a bit more. The rule is simple. You only have to share 7 facts about yourself on your blog and then pass it on to 7 more people. So here goes . . . . .

1. Chocolates and coffee are my vitamins – I take them everyday.

2. I love to read and I read just about anything that will make me look good in case I die in the middle of it.

3. I have donated blood for the fist time last year. It’s a dream come true and I’ll keep on doing this as long as I am able to.

4. I want to have a personalized theme for Only in Silence and I wish to come across some good hearted people who will make me one and install it too because I am not well-versed with the codes - all for free ;)

5. I am so afraid of insects, and butterflies are no exemption.

6. I am always on time. And I HATE people who come in late. They are usually the ones who appear jollier than the people who have to wait for them.

7. I lose temper easily, especially when I’m hungry. So if you need something from me, bring in some food and we’ll talk.

7. I don’t wear make up, jewelry and perfume.

and if that’s not enough, there’s more of me here.

Now I’m passing this on to Cold Silence, Rocks, 4ever7, Ambet, Gen, Carlota and ASCII. Hope you can play along!

I was talking to my husband last night via YM. We were talking about our son who was sick. The conversation went on from our son to his friend who’s coming home then to the spider he found in our bathroom few months ago. And then I had to pee. When I stood up, the webcam caught a close view of my boobs (hey! of course, I had my shirt on!) and I was surprised when he said ‘Dessert and Dinner’ with that naughty grin on his face. So, he already read it . . . . . But when I asked him, ‘So what’s your penis’ name?’, he can’t answer. It turned out that because he was so excited to tease me, he didn’t notice Fatboy Slim.

So I asked him to click the link, and voila! His member’s name?

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